Why should the bride's party have all the fun? Let the groomsmen be groomed!

For too long, there’s been an unspoken rule that men in weddings – the groomsmen, best men, and the groom – are simple creatures who can get dressed and ready in the blink of an eye. Sure, it’s true that many men can throw on a suit and be set in 20 minutes flat. But, let’s be honest, the wedding day is just as important for them, and they deserve to feel sharp, polished, and yes, even pampered.

When I got married, the most time-consuming part of my day was realising I had to iron my shirt – and that my mate Andrew was running late. Despite these small hiccups, we were ready an hour early with time to spare. But what could have made the experience even more memorable? A chance for the groom’s party to indulge in a bit of luxury and self-care, something more than just a quick splash of water on the face and a hurried knot in a tie.

So, what can grooms do to feel a little more pampered on the big day, without veering into manicures or makeup (unless, of course, that’s their thing)? Enter the mobile grooming service – something I stumbled upon at a recent wedding expo. These businesses provide on-the-road grooming for grooms, best men, and even page boys, offering them a special experience to help them look and feel their best.

A professional barber arrives at your location, setting up an antique barber chair right in the midst of your wedding preparations. You sit back, and the team treats you to a classic hot towel shave, complete with soothing towels, luxury aftershave, and a finishing cologne. It’s more than just grooming – it’s an experience, and one that adds a layer of calm and relaxation to the often-hectic wedding day.

If you can't get a travelling barber, even taking over a barber shop early on a wedding day morning can be fun.

As a celebrant, a groom, and an experienced groomsman, I can confidently say that this kind of service isn’t just a “nice-to-have” – it’s an awesome way to elevate the day for the groom’s side of the wedding party. After all, why should the bride and her bridesmaids have all the fun? The groom’s party deserves their time to shine too.

And really, it’s not just about looking good – it’s about feeling good.

💍 Josh Withers is an Australian wedding celebrant based in Hobart who travels the world every week creating meaningful, fun, and honest marriage ceremonies for adventurous couples just like you.

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